[x] NiGeL's bLoG HeRe
[x] WhAt'S HeRe ReMaiNs HeRe
[x] TaG bEfOrE U LeAvE
[x] cLiCk oN tHe 4 PiCtUrEs AboVe tO NaviGaTe HeeX... ^^Y
Friday, March 10, 2006
12:00 AM
[E]xP[e]Ct tH[e] UnE[x]PecTabLe[s]
a comment to Jess's Post...
well... i put *crying* under the category of a *choice made* instead... i feel that it isn't much of a natural reaction... i'll give an example to make my statement clearer... imagine a stiuation where u got reprimanded by someone unreasonably... how'd u think u would feel?? angry?? upset?? frustrated?? but what if i were to say that these feelings DOES NOT come naturally but is of a choice made instead?? we do have remote controls to our feelings too... but these remote controls, lies in your hands... see if this makes sense... u don't get angry at someone because he or she did something which irritated u... u choose to get angry with them... u choose to...
and in my stand, i've chosen not to cry... yes... because i'm weak... because i've very sensitive to what other ppl might think of miie... probably also because i'm scared to cry... out of 10, probably 1 wud think how Jess think... take a look around u... time don't stop... things would continue to change... competition of anything would definitely be set higher... anything... jobs, relationships, etc.. and to wad i feel, crying, would most probably be something which stops one from moving on... cry for the first day and brood over it for the second... i'd rather use the time to reflect on what went wrong and take action to improve it... and that, is specifically what i always tell myself when i'm holding back my tears...
its under my dad's influence.. "don't cry... u are a man, so be one..." tats what he always tell miie when im drowning ants at my primary school years... but sometimes... i feel the total opposite... whenever i'm down... i'd usually... very usually... head to my destinated location (for miie that is, i've so naively chosen that place... a typical singaporean i am too... hahax...) and start to brood over it... talking to myself... and really do stupid things... all jus to make miie feel better... and crying... is included in the process...
in an overall idea... i am with Jessinta's view... let the tears fall and let it soothe yur heart... ^^ may god bless u...
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[x] Name : Nigel Chua
[x] Age : 18
[x] First Cry : 26/03/88
[x] Current School : Nanyang Poly
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[x] World Peace
[x] Top student in NYP
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